Can you meet me socially, for coffee or dinner?
Many people find my company enjoyable - simply put, that is what I do for a living. While I may genuinely enjoy spending time with you, I will also consider your respect for my time and profession a great courtesy.
I want to be in touch between meetings. May I text or email you?
I will provide a phone number just prior to our meeting; however, that number is to be used only right before our date. Please use email at all other times.
As for emails, texts, etc. to chat between meetings: I feel that it encourages unrealistic expectations of our relationship. I will always respect the separateness of your private life, and expect the same in return. Just as important, while these small email responses may seem like just a minute here or a minute there, they actually eat up a huge part of our lives. I simply can't maintain a regular correspondence between meetings, because it WILL detract from my other obligations. Please, we can chat when we see each other :)
I consider this an utmost courtesy, and a statement of respect for me, my personal and professional boundaries, and my time.
If you ever particularly desire regular written contact with me, you may read about my correspondence packages here. Unfortunately, at this time, I cannot offer this option due to other obligations.
Do you smoke?
No. I don't mind if you are a smoker, but I do request that you try to refrain from smoking while you are around me.
Do you have tattoos or piercings?
Pierced ears, nothing else. No tattoos.
What will you wear on our date?
I will dress appropriately for the occasion, while also respecting your expressed desires as to attire (if applicable). I would never wear anything that would attract attention to me (or you) in anything but a positive manner.
Do you like women?
Yes, I enjoy women very much! My very sexy friend, the lovely and vicacious Violetta Michelle (currently based in Chicago) visits NYC every few weeks, and we are available for duos. I am also acquainted with several other amazing women in NYC, Philadelphia, NJ, Delaware, and Seattle!
We request a 90-minute minimum for this. An hour is too short for double the fun!!! ;) ;) ;)
Do you like gifts?
Of course! But at this time, I'd prefer that you make a donation someplace (in my name or yours), rather than gifting me. That will mean a lot to me. I support Alzheimer's research, Project Safe Philly, Witness to Innocence, and helping North Korean refugees.
There are a few arts organizations with which I'm personally involved. I'm not able to post a direct link from my 'Jessica' website, but I know they are very worthy organizations and that your donation will do a lot of good in the world:). Please email me for more I go.