The minimum date for me to fly to you is 4 hours. Compensation for my time is the same as in my donations section, plus travel expenses. To ensure our date goes according to plan, I require as an advance deposit 100% of my travel expenses plus 50% of the donation for my time.
(More info about deposits at the bottom of this page)
I'm an easygoing person, and in 99.9% of cases I'll be happy to go with the flow. If you need some ideas, here are a few of my favorite activities:
I'll need at least 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep, and three square meals per day in order to remain my normal cheerful self :) Unless you have a schedule exigency that you've discussed with me previously (an early flight or work meeting, for example) please do not wake me up any earlier than 6AM (that's a minimum guideline, not an alarm request :) ). I'm not a particularly late sleeper, but understandably will not feel very cheerful if woken up suddenly.
If you are aware that for some reason you may keep me awake at night, please book me a separate room so that I can wake up rested and ready for fun :)
For dates longer than 12-15 hours, please allow me about 2 hours each day for exercise, minor personal obligations, self-care, etc.
Regarding extended dates generally, my philosophy is that we should unwind together, and wind each other up - in good measure! Sustainability is key to mutual pleasure. :)
Aside from that, let's have fun! :-)
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Deposits
It's quick, easy, and discreet, I promise :) Several methods are listed below:
The most discreet method (no paper or electronic trail): Purchase a Vanilla Visa gift or Mastercard (no AMEX) card (the non-reloadable kind, please) and email me two cell phone images of the front and back of the card. I cannot accept AMEX gift cards at this time.
CashApp, Venmo, Bitcoin
Credit card: I will email you an invoice. A discreet business name will appear on your credit card statement.
My deposit policy:
Should I have to cancel the date at any time, I will refund the deposit in full. Should you cancel within 48 hours of our date, I will refund the deposit minus any expenses incurred. Should you cancel with less than 24 hours notice, the deposit is non-refundable.
I'll give you an estimate before we finalize any plans, and will send screenshots and/or receipts upon request.
If you have a question not addressed here, please email me (see 'Contact' section).
