Do you offer BDSM sessions?
While I sometimes partake in *light* role play with the right person (so long as I'm comfortable with the situation), I'm really not the right person for you if you're looking for an immersive BDSM experience. If that's the case, I recommend seeking out a professional dominant or submissive. These two websites are a great place to start your search: http://theartofdomination.com and http://theartofsubmission.com
(No, I'm not intersted in finding the right person to initiate me ;-) )
I emailed you, and you never replied.
Two common reasons:
- If an email is vague, or excessively terse, I will assume that the inquiry is not serious, and/or is not likely to be a proposal that will interest me.
- Perhaps there wasn't respect shown for my verification process (please see my contact form).
If neither of the above, then in some way, you may have, in some way, come across as a person I would not wish to meet.
It’s been my unfortunate experience that, when I politely decline a request to meet, the other party persists with entreaties and worse. Thus, if I get the sense that we won’t be a match, I will not engage at all. While you may not agree with my decision, I do ask that you respect my wishes, and please seek out another companion.
Is there anything else?
For most things, I’ll assume that common sense will suffice… However, there are two subjects I’d like to address.
1) I am an easygoing person, not particularly partial to rules or formalities. However, respect for time is extremely important to me. Please don’t take advantage of my kindness. (I’m not talking about innocently losing track of time, as I do agree the hours fly by while we’re having fun :-) ). If I feel that you’re disregarding my time, or purposefully endeavoring to delay your departure (or mine) beyond the agreed-upon time, it is unlikely that you’ll find me inclined to accept future dates.
2) I hope that I'm preaching to the choir, but I feel like this needs to be said: porn has about the same relationship to reality as a Marvel film. It's entertainment. Sure it's fun to watch, but it is absolutely NOT realistic, and it's definitely not intended to be a tutorial. A lot of what is depicted does not happen in a way that would be pleasurable to me in a real-life situation, to say it kindly. To me, mutual pleasure looks and feels much differently. If we're not on the same page about this, I prefer that you find a different companion.
My time is very much in demand, so I have no need or desire to spend time with somebody who doesn’t treat me with the utmost consideration. With that said, most people I’ve met have been completely amazing, true gentlemen in every sense of the word. Hopefully, these two points are completely unnecessary reminders, and we can enjoy a mutually pleasurable relationship for a long time :)